Elderly Care Bethesda MD
If Alzheimer’s disease is part of your elder care journey with your aging parents, it is likely that the past and the future are on your mind a lot of the time. You are constantly thinking about the past in terms of the people who your parents used to be, the memories that they no longer have, and the things that they will no longer be able to do. You are also thinking about the future in terms of how you are going to adjust your care approach to make sure that you are addressing their continuously changing needs in order to keep them safely, healthy, and happy as they progress through their disease, and what your life is going to be like when your elderly care journey with them comes to an end.
Reminiscing about the past and planning for the future are important parts of being a compassionate and effective caregiver for seniors who are coping with Alzheimer’s disease, but in order to get the most benefits from your care journey with your seniors and give yourself and them the highest quality of life, it is important to live for the moment, and encourage them to do the same.
Use these tips to help your aging parents with Alzheimer’s disease live for the moment while you put yourself in the same mindset:
• Do not think about the end. This does not mean to live in denial and pretend that your parents are immortal, but it does mean not always thinking about the end of your journey with them and what life is going to be like then. If you are always thinking about this end you are not allowing yourself to enjoy all of the wonderful moments that you can have with them now. Instead, focus on the time that you have together and make the most of it while still making sure that you are well prepared for their end of life transition so that you know what decisions to make when the time comes.
• Listen to the stories. It can absolutely get frustrating and a little tiresome to hear your parents tell you the same stories over and over, but resist the urge to stop them when they launch into that story again. This is their moment, and a moment that they do not think that they are repeating. Allow them the fun of telling you that story, and enjoy receiving it. Appreciate any opportunities you have to give your loved ones joy and to connect with them, even if it is happening multiple times in the same day.
• Preserve memories. This moment will become yesterday before you know it, so make sure you do everything you can to preserve those moments. Saving these memories will allow you to treasure them well into the future. You can even bring them out in a few weeks or a few months and share them with your loved ones so that you can enjoy them together again.
If you or an aging loved one are considering elderly care in Bethesda, MD, please call the friendly staff at Philia Care today at 202-607-2525.